Let’s see how far a little kindness can go

Start with one person.
See what happens next.

You don’t need a plane ticket to make someone’s day better. Share a meal. Help someone learn. Give an hour of your time. Then invite a friend to do the same.

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1,042Hours volunteered

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We care about feeding people, supporting education, helping women build their businesses, and showing up for local communities. These are our own totals, and we will keep adding to them as our journey continues.

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From our travels

Sharing meals in Baja

For three years in Baja California, Mexico, we cooked and shared meals every week with migrant farmworkers from Oaxaca and their families. Over those three years, we fed hundreds of people. We fed dogs we met along the way, too.

A large pot of beans with a ladle.
Beans for the meal
Plates of food and tortillas on a long table.
Plates at the shared table
Two dogs eating kibble beside a brick wall.
Feeding dogs in Baja

Our promise to the communities we meet

We’re Kevin and Sadie Smiley. We travel to experience everyday life, build connections, and contribute to the communities that welcome us.

We’ve experienced homelessness ourselves. That’s part of our story, and it shapes how we approach giving back. Our experience doesn’t mean we understand everyone else’s circumstances. It reminds us to listen, respect people’s choices, and protect their privacy.

Here’s what we promise wherever we go. Tap any topic to read more.

Ensenada, Baja California

An outdoor wash station with basins, buckets, and cookware.
The outdoor wash station
A large cooking pot filled with stew.
Cooking for a shared meal
Outdoor wash basins beside a clothesline.
Wash basins and a clothesline

How we give back

Listening and showing up

We listen before we help

We ask local people and community organisations what would actually be useful. We support locally led efforts and follow their priorities.

Sometimes that means volunteering. Sometimes it means money, requested supplies purchased locally, or sharing a skill. We recognise that hosting visitors can create work, and we accept when our involvement isn’t needed.

We make commitments we can keep

Before contributing, we agree privately on our budget, available time, and boundaries. We check who we’re working with, how contributions will be used, and whether our involvement is appropriate and permitted.

We won’t promise ongoing support we can’t sustain, replace paid local work with our volunteering, or take on tasks beyond our abilities. We don’t participate in orphanage tourism or short-term orphanage volunteering.

Filming and consent

Help never depends on being filmed

Nobody owes us their story, an interview, a photograph, or a grateful reaction in exchange for support.

Declining to appear in our content will never affect our contribution. We keep giving and filming as separate decisions, with the camera off by default.

What we may film

When people freely agree and filming is appropriate, we may share:

  • Our own preparation, participation, and reflections.
  • Community projects and public activities, with the necessary permissions.
  • Local organisers explaining their work in their own words.
  • Consenting adults sharing what they choose to share.
  • Practical ways viewers can support a verified organisation.

Before recording, we explain where the content will appear, that it may earn revenue, and that public material can be copied or shared beyond our control. We seek permission in a language people understand. An organiser’s approval does not replace an individual’s consent.

Privacy and personal stories

What we won’t film or publish

We won’t:

  • Stage generosity, recreate reactions, or ask anyone to perform gratitude.
  • Make cash handouts or someone’s reaction to receiving help into entertainment.
  • Film someone in distress or during a private crisis.
  • Reveal someone’s housing situation, health information, financial circumstances, or other sensitive details without their explicit agreement and a careful assessment of possible harm.
  • Publish identifiable images of children receiving assistance.
  • Reveal private homes, shelters, sensitive locations, or identifying details that could put anyone at risk.
  • Use humiliating images, stereotypes, or sensational titles and thumbnails.
  • Present ourselves as rescuers or claim responsibility for work a community has built.

Permission alone doesn’t make every story appropriate to publish. If we’re unsure, we leave it out.

We respect people’s control over their stories

When someone shares a sensitive personal story, we offer them the opportunity to check their contribution and identifying details before publication.

They can change their mind before publication. After publication, we take concerns seriously and work promptly to remove or change material on channels we control. We cannot guarantee removal of copies others have made.

Our own experience of homelessness is ours to discuss. It does not give us permission to tell anyone else’s story.

Money and accountability

We’re clear about money and relationships

We don’t disclose our private giving budget or promise help to everyone who asks. Boundaries allow us to contribute consistently.

If we invite viewers to donate, we direct them to a verified organisation’s official channel. We disclose relevant sponsorships, affiliate relationships, and any financial arrangement connected to a featured project.

Buying locally and paying fairly are part of being responsible visitors. We don’t describe every purchase as charity or exaggerate the impact of our contributions.

We keep learning

We ask whether our involvement was useful, welcome feedback, and change our approach when needed. If we make a mistake, we acknowledge it and take practical steps to address it.

Giving back is part of how we want to live, whether or not it becomes content. The people we meet matter more than the footage we could bring home.

Baja California, Mexico

More from our weekly meals in Baja

Four people preparing tortillas and serving food together.
People sharing a meal at outdoor tables in Baja.
People gathered outside a building in the Baja hills.
People serving plates of food and tortillas at a long table.
People handing out bananas and oranges around the tables.

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